"There is no inevitability in life that we are less prepared for than death. Where is our guidance for this universal event that every one us will face? Why don't we teach people how to die? Why don't we teach people how to live after someone they love has died? We need to change this. We need to equip people with the tools they will need to cope. This is part of what end of life doulas do. We talk about death, with the living and the dying".